How to Help Your Kids Purge Toys Before the Holidays
As the holidays approach, many families find themselves facing toy overload. Between gifts from family, friends, and grandparents, new toys can quickly take over playrooms, bedrooms, and living spaces. Now is the perfect time to help your kids declutter and organize their toys before the holiday season begins. Here’s how to make the process stress-free, meaningful, and even enjoyable for both you and your children.
Kids can be protective of their toys, so your approach matters. Instead of calling it a “purge” or “clean-out,” frame it as an opportunity to make space for new toys. Try saying something like:
“Let’s make room for the fun new things coming this holiday!”
By keeping the focus positive, your child will feel more involved and less resistant to the idea of letting go.
A full toy room can be overwhelming, especially for kids. Break the process down into smaller, easy-to-handle steps. Start with one category or area at a time:
Stuffed animals
Dolls or action figures
Building sets
Art supplies
Games and puzzles
This approach makes the task more manageable and helps kids see real progress as they go.
When children feel in charge, they’re more likely to participate willingly. Hand your child a small bin or basket and say,
“Let’s pick five toys you don’t play with anymore so another child can enjoy them.”
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his simple strategy teaches decision-making skills and builds confidence while helping them understand the value of sharing.
Kids are often more willing to part with toys when they know they’re going to a good home. Talk about local charities or donation centers that give toys to children in need. You might even involve your child in delivering the donations.
When they see their generosity in action, it creates a meaningful connection and makes the process more rewarding.
If your child is unsure about certain toys, don’t force it. Create a “Maybe” box — a temporary holding space for items they’re not ready to give up. Store it out of sight for a few weeks. If your child doesn’t ask for anything in the box, that’s a clear sign it can be donated.
This technique avoids arguments and reduces decision fatigue.
Once you’re done going through the playroom, their bedroom, or any other space that creates toy mayhem, take time to celebrate together! Enjoy a special treat, play a favorite game, or have a cozy movie night. Celebrating the process helps kids associate decluttering with positive feelings. It can make them more likely to do it again in the future.
Toy organization doesn’t have to be a once-a-year struggle. Try setting a schedule for seasonal toy decluttering:
Spring: Rotate outdoor toys and craft supplies
Summer: Reassess books and puzzles
Fall: Clear out broken or outgrown toys before the holidays
A regular declutter keeps toy clutter under control and makes future purges much easier.
Helping your kids let go of old toys isn’t just about creating space. It’s about teaching gratitude, generosity, and intentional living. When your home feels lighter and more organized, the entire family benefits.
If the idea of holiday toy clutter already feels overwhelming, I can help you create a customized organizing plan that works for your family’s lifestyle and home.
Let’s make this holiday season more peaceful and organized!
If you feel you need some guidance or want a professional guiding your children through decluttering, contact me for your playroom project.
Nicole Paray, Owner & Professional Organizer of The Tidy Peacock®️